FUNCTIONS:

Agreeing

Disagreeing

Hesitating

Introducing your opinion

Asking for opinions

Expressing preferences

Asking for clarification

Expressing likelihood

Speculating, guessing

Advice and recommendations

Describing a picture

Agreeing

I think you’re right

I would go along with the idea

I completely agree with you

That makes perfect sense

You have a point there

Absolutely, that’s spot on!

I couldn’t agree more

Disagreeing

That’s not how I see it

I couldn’t agree less

You must be kidding

That’s a ridiculous idea, don’t you think?

With all due respect, I must disagree

I’m afraid I can’t see it that way

No way, that’s nonsense!

Hesitating

I’m in two minds about it

I have some reservations regarding that

I’m not entirely convinced

There’s something that gives me pause

While I’m not entirely opposed, I do have some doubts

Introducing your opinion

To my mind

I reckon

In my opinion

As I see it

It seems to me

I would argue

From my point of view

Asking for opinions

Don’t you think …?

What’s your attitude to …?

What’s your opinion of …?

Are you in favour of …?

What’s your position as regards …?

You don’t support …, do you?

Expressing preferences

I prefer…

I would rather…

My preference would be…

I tend to favour…

If I had to choose, I would…

I lean towards…

I am inclined to…

I’m a big fan of…

I really enjoy…

I’m into…

I absolutely love…

I’m crazy about…

I’m fond of…

It’s right up my alley

It’s my thing

I can’t get enough of…

It appeals to me

It’s growing on me

I wouldn’t miss it for the world

I’m not a big fan of…

I don’t really enjoy…

I’m not into…

I can’t stand…

I’m not fond of…

It’s not my cup of tea

It doesn’t do anything for me

I’m sick of…

It gets on my nerves

It puts me off

I’d rather not…

It leaves me cold…

Asking for clarification

Could you please elaborate on that?

Would you mind explaining that further?

I’m not quite sure I understand. Could you clarify?

Could you provide more details?

Can you expand on that point?

Expressing likelihood

“It’s a foregone conclusion that…”

“There’s no doubt in my mind that…”

“I am almost certain that…”

“It’s highly likely that…”

“Chances are that…”

“I wouldn’t be surprised if…”

“It’s possible that…”

“There’s a chance that…”

“It’s unlikely that…”

“I doubt that…”

Speculating, guessing

“It seems to me that…”

“My gut feeling is that…”

“From what I gather…”

“If I were to guess…”

“It would appear that…”

“I reckon that…”

“I suspect that…”

“In all likelihood…”

“There’s a distinct possibility that…”

“It’s plausible that…”

Advice and recommendations

“You might want to consider…”

“Perhaps you could try…”

“If I were you, I would…”

“One thing you could do is…”

“Have you thought of…”

“May I suggest…”

“It might be beneficial to…”

“Consider this approach…”

“Why not give this a go…”

“If it were up to me, I’d…”

Describing a picture

“In the foreground…”

“In the background…”

“In the center of the image…”

“On the left side of the picture…”

“On the right side of the picture…”

“At the top of the picture…”

“At the bottom of the picture…”

“The picture depicts…”

“The image illustrates…”

“The photograph shows…”

“One can see…”

“Notice how…”

“This scene captures…”

“This photograph highlights…”

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Who are you, really? The puzzle of personality by Brian Little
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warm up

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TRANSCRIPT

I think I know a fair amount about myself, but there’s always more to discover. Over the years, I’ve learned about my strengths and weaknesses, what motivates me, and what stresses me out. But self-awareness is a constant process. Life experiences continue to shape who we are, so I believe there’s always something new to learn about how I react in different situations.

Does our personality adffect the way we communicate?
TRANSCRIPT

Yes, our personality definitely affects how we communicate. For example, an extroverted person may be more comfortable speaking up in meetings or social situations, while someone who’s more introverted might prefer to listen and process information before sharing their thoughts. Understanding these differences can help us adapt our communication style depending on who we’re talking to.

To what extend can we change our personality?
TRANSCRIPT

I think we can change aspects of our personality, but only to a certain extent. Some traits, like being naturally introverted or extroverted, are harder to change because they’re part of our core makeup. But we can work on improving how we react to situations, manage emotions, and adapt to different environments. It’s about finding a balance between staying true to yourself and evolving over time.

part one

KEY LANGUAGE

Go through the flashcards below. Make sure you understand all the words and expressions.

VIDEO

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COMPREHENSION

Answer these questions. Refer to the information from the video.

  • ⌚ 1:01 What will Brian Little’s talk help the audience with?
  • ⌚ 1:31 What branch of psychology is he involved in?
  • ⌚ 2:08 What fascinates him the most about people?
  • ⌚ 2:30 What is trait psychology?
  • ⌚ 3:03 What does OCEAN stand for?

part two

KEY LANGUAGE

Go through the flashcards below. Make sure you understand all the words and expressions.

VIDEO

Watch the second part of the video.

COMPREHENSION

Answer these questions. Refer to the information from the video.

  • ⌚ 3:25 What is opennes and conscientiousness a predictor of as regards success in life?
  • ⌚ 3:36 What are extroversion and agreeableness conducive to?
  • ⌚ 4:52 What do the three natures – biogenic nature, sociogenic, idiogenic – describe?
  • ⌚ 5:17 What kind of stimulation do extrovert people need?
  • ⌚ 5:33 Are introverted people antisocial?
  • ⌚ 5:51 Who does caffeine work better on?

part three

KEY LANGUAGE

Go through the flashcards below. Make sure you understand all the words and expressions.

VIDEO

Watch the third part of the video.

COMPREHENSION

Answer these questions. Refer to the information from the video.

  • ⌚ 7:41 What are the results of the study on the frequency with which individuals engage in the conjugal act?
  • ⌚ 8:21 How do extroverted people communicate?
  • ⌚ 9:11 How do introverted people like to talk?
  • ⌚ 10:40 How was Tom and Brain talking past each other when they were describing Micheal?

part four

KEY LANGUAGE

Go through the flashcards below. Make sure you understand all the words and expressions.

VIDEO

Watch the fourth part of the video.

COMPREHENSION

Answer these questions. Refer to the information from the video.

  • ⌚ 11:38 Are we just a collection of personality traits?
  • ⌚ 12:09 What makes us different from each other?
  • ⌚ 12:48 What are some of the situations when we act out of charachter?
  • ⌚ 12:54 What are free traits?
  • ⌚ 13:01 What is a better question to ask about people’s character?
  • ⌚ 13:40 Why does Brain act more extrovertly for his students?

POLL

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Do you agree with Brian Little that personality may be more malleable than we think?
Which statement best reflects how you see your own personality?
What do you think matters more when understanding a person?

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DISCUSSION

DIALOGUE

Alita and Pete are on a train. To pass the time, they watched this TED Talk. Here’s their conversation. 

Read or role-play it. 

Alita:
I’m glad we watched this on the train. It somehow fits — moving forward while thinking about who we really are.

Pete:
Yeah, it was surprisingly engaging. I expected another “personality types” lecture, but he went much deeper than that.

Alita:
Exactly. I liked how he challenged the idea that we’re just a bundle of traits. The concept of free traits really stuck with me.

Pete:
Same here. The idea that you can act out of character on purpose, because something matters to you — that felt very real.

Alita:
It made me think about work. I’m quite introverted by nature, but when I care about a project, I become much more outspoken than people expect.

Pete:
That’s a good example. I used to think that changing behaviour meant being fake. Now I see it more as adapting, not pretending.

Alita:
Yes — staying true to your values, not necessarily your default settings.

Pete:
Still, I wonder where the limit is. You can stretch yourself, sure, but you can’t rewrite your personality completely.

Alita:
True. And I think Brian Little isn’t denying that. He’s just saying we’re not prisoners of our traits.

Pete:
That’s reassuring, actually. It means growth doesn’t require becoming someone else — just choosing what matters enough to step outside your comfort zone.

Alita:
Well put. Makes this train ride feel a bit more… meaningful.

OVER TO YOU

Discuss these questions. Refer to the topic of the lesson and your own experience.

1️⃣Brian Little says we are more than just a set of personality traits.
Do you agree with this idea? In what situations do you feel that your values or goals matter more than your natural personality?
2️⃣Alita mentions acting more extroverted at work when she cares about a project.
Can you think of a time when you acted out of character because something was important to you?
3️⃣ Pete wonders whether changing behaviour means being “fake.”
What do you think — where is the line between adapting and pretending to be someone else?
4️⃣The talk introduces the idea of “free traits.”
Which free trait do you think you use most often in your life (for example, being more confident, more patient, or more organised than usual)?
5️⃣ Brian Little suggests that growth does not require becoming a different person.
Do you find this idea encouraging or unrealistic? Why?

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