FUNCTIONS:

Agreeing

Disagreeing

Hesitating

Introducing your opinion

Asking for opinions

Expressing preferences

Asking for clarification

Expressing likelihood

Speculating, guessing

Advice and recommendations

Describing a picture

Agreeing

I think you’re right

I would go along with the idea

I completely agree with you

That makes perfect sense

You have a point there

Absolutely, that’s spot on!

I couldn’t agree more

Disagreeing

That’s not how I see it

I couldn’t agree less

You must be kidding

That’s a ridiculous idea, don’t you think?

With all due respect, I must disagree

I’m afraid I can’t see it that way

No way, that’s nonsense!

Hesitating

I’m in two minds about it

I have some reservations regarding that

I’m not entirely convinced

There’s something that gives me pause

While I’m not entirely opposed, I do have some doubts

Introducing your opinion

To my mind

I reckon

In my opinion

As I see it

It seems to me

I would argue

From my point of view

Asking for opinions

Don’t you think …?

What’s your attitude to …?

What’s your opinion of …?

Are you in favour of …?

What’s your position as regards …?

You don’t support …, do you?

Expressing preferences

I prefer…

I would rather…

My preference would be…

I tend to favour…

If I had to choose, I would…

I lean towards…

I am inclined to…

I’m a big fan of…

I really enjoy…

I’m into…

I absolutely love…

I’m crazy about…

I’m fond of…

It’s right up my alley

It’s my thing

I can’t get enough of…

It appeals to me

It’s growing on me

I wouldn’t miss it for the world

I’m not a big fan of…

I don’t really enjoy…

I’m not into…

I can’t stand…

I’m not fond of…

It’s not my cup of tea

It doesn’t do anything for me

I’m sick of…

It gets on my nerves

It puts me off

I’d rather not…

It leaves me cold…

Asking for clarification

Could you please elaborate on that?

Would you mind explaining that further?

I’m not quite sure I understand. Could you clarify?

Could you provide more details?

Can you expand on that point?

Expressing likelihood

“It’s a foregone conclusion that…”

“There’s no doubt in my mind that…”

“I am almost certain that…”

“It’s highly likely that…”

“Chances are that…”

“I wouldn’t be surprised if…”

“It’s possible that…”

“There’s a chance that…”

“It’s unlikely that…”

“I doubt that…”

Speculating, guessing

“It seems to me that…”

“My gut feeling is that…”

“From what I gather…”

“If I were to guess…”

“It would appear that…”

“I reckon that…”

“I suspect that…”

“In all likelihood…”

“There’s a distinct possibility that…”

“It’s plausible that…”

Advice and recommendations

“You might want to consider…”

“Perhaps you could try…”

“If I were you, I would…”

“One thing you could do is…”

“Have you thought of…”

“May I suggest…”

“It might be beneficial to…”

“Consider this approach…”

“Why not give this a go…”

“If it were up to me, I’d…”

Describing a picture

“In the foreground…”

“In the background…”

“In the center of the image…”

“On the left side of the picture…”

“On the right side of the picture…”

“At the top of the picture…”

“At the bottom of the picture…”

“The picture depicts…”

“The image illustrates…”

“The photograph shows…”

“One can see…”

“Notice how…”

“This scene captures…”

“This photograph highlights…”

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warm up

Answer the questions below.

TRANSCRIPT

My strongest motivation is the desire to keep improving myself. Whether it’s learning something new or becoming better at my job, I love the feeling of making progress. It’s what pushes me to set goals and keep going, even when things get tough.

What can affect our motivation positively or negatively?
TRANSCRIPT

Motivation can be influenced by a lot of things. When I feel appreciated or see the positive impact of my work, my motivation gets a real boost. But when I’m overwhelmed or when it feels like my efforts aren’t being recognized, it can take a hit. Staying connected to my purpose helps me stay on track.

Do you prefer to do what you want or to be told what to do?
TRANSCRIPT

I definitely prefer to do what I want. I like having the freedom to make my own decisions and figure things out on my terms. I think it helps me stay more engaged and motivated when I have control over how I approach my work.

part one

KEY LANGUAGE

Go through the flashcards below. Make sure you understand all the words and expressions.

VIDEO

Watch the first part of the video.

COMPREHENSION

Answer these questions. Refer to the information from the video.

  • How long have they been working on the Theory of Self-Determination?
  • What is the primary distinction which Deci and Ryan introduced?
  • What does it mean to be autonomously motivated?
  • What does it mean to be controlled in your motivation?

part two

KEY LANGUAGE

Go through the flashcards below. Make sure you understand all the words and expressions.

VIDEO

Watch the second part of the video.

COMPREHENSION

Answer these questions. Refer to the information from the video.

  • What are the three basic psychological needs?
  • What is competence?
  • What is relatedness?
  • What is autonomy?
  • What does it mean to be intrinsically motivated?
  • What does it mean to be extrinsically motivated?
  • How can one promote better motivation in others?

POLL

Cast your vote in the poll.

What gives your motivation the strongest boost?
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DISCUSSION

Dialogue

Read or role-play a dialogue between two psychology students discussing the ideas from Edward Deci.

Anna:
So, what really stayed with me from the video was this idea that motivation isn’t about how much you have, but what kind it is. I’ve always thought that if I pushed myself harder, I’d get better results.

Marek:
Same here. I was raised on deadlines, grades, and pressure. It worked in the short term, but I was often exhausted. When Deci talked about controlled motivation, it honestly sounded like my entire school experience.

Anna:
Exactly. I recognized myself when he described doing things just to avoid guilt or disappointment. I used to study just so I wouldn’t feel bad about myself later. I was motivated, but it didn’t feel healthy.

Marek:
What surprised me most was how much better autonomous motivation works. Last year, I chose a research topic that genuinely interested me, not one that I thought would impress the lecturer. I worked longer hours, but I didn’t feel drained.

Anna:
That’s a great example of competence and autonomy working together. For me, relatedness was the missing piece. During my internship, my supervisor actually listened to my ideas. I felt respected, and suddenly I wanted to contribute more.

Marek:
Yes, that sense of belonging really changes things. It’s interesting how rewards can sometimes backfire. I used to think bonuses or grades were always motivating, but now I see how they can reduce internal motivation.

Anna:
I also liked the part about internalized extrinsic motivation. Not everything we do has to be fun. I don’t love statistics, but once I understood why it matters for research, I stopped resisting it so much.

Marek:
Same with my part-time job. I wouldn’t say I’m passionate about it, but I value what it gives me—independence and experience. That makes a huge difference in how I approach my work.

Anna:
Overall, the video made me rethink how motivation works in real life. Especially as future psychologists—we shouldn’t just ask how to motivate people, but how to support their basic needs.

Marek:
Absolutely. It’s not about pushing people harder. It’s about creating conditions where motivation can grow naturally.

OVER TO YOU

Discuss these questions.

BulletPeople are often motivated by pressure, grades, or rewards.
How can this help people, and how can it cause problems?
BulletMany people work better when they feel they have a choice.
Why does having a choice make motivation stronger?
BulletAccording to the theory, people need competence, autonomy, and connection.
Which of these is most often missing at school or at work, and what happens then?
BulletSome tasks are not enjoyable, but people still do them well.
How does knowing why a task is important change people’s attitude to it?
BulletSchools and companies often use rewards and punishment.
What other ways could they use to motivate people more effectively?

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